Lenders have a sixth sense for anything that looks even a little off, and it’s wild how granular they get.
This is painfully accurate. When I bought my house last year, I swear my lender was one step away from asking what I spent at Taco Bell in 2014. I tried to keep things “boring” like you said, but then my grandma decided to gift me $200 with the memo “for your future.” Cue the paperwork parade.
One thing I’d add: if you’re getting any kind of gift money, ask your folks (or whoever) to write “gift” in the memo and be ready for them to sign a “gift letter.” It’s not just about tracking the cash—it’s about proving you’re not secretly taking out a loan from Uncle Bob on the side.
And yeah, cash deposits are a minefield. If you’ve got mattress money, just... don’t. Lenders hate mystery cash more than I hate mowing my lawn.
All in all, it’s a hassle, but it’s worth it when you’re sitting on your own couch instead of explaining another weird Venmo memo.
Lenders hate mystery cash more than I hate mowing my lawn.
That line cracked me up because it’s so true. I had a similar situation—sold a bunch of old electronics on Facebook Marketplace and thought, “Hey, extra for closing costs.” Nope. Lender flagged it and suddenly I’m digging up screenshots and messages to prove where it all came from. Makes you wonder how people manage with side gigs or tips. Has anyone actually gotten through this without some random deposit causing drama?
- Totally get it—lenders act like every dollar is a potential crime scene.
- I’ve seen buyers get tripped up by stuff like Venmo transfers from roommates or even birthday cash from grandma.
- It’s wild how strict they are, but I guess it’s their way of covering all bases.
- Curious—has anyone tried just keeping side gig money out of their main account until after closing? Or does that just make things messier?
- Sometimes I wonder if we’re overcomplicating things... but then again, I’ve seen deals fall apart over a $200 unexplained deposit.
It’s wild, but I’ve literally watched a deal get delayed because someone’s mom sent them $100 for “lunch money” and the underwriter wanted a signed letter from her explaining it wasn’t a loan. Not even kidding. It feels like financial forensics sometimes.
About keeping side gig money out of your main account—honestly, that can backfire if you suddenly need to explain where a big chunk of cash came from when you do deposit it later. Lenders want everything to be documented and traceable, so hiding money or moving it around can actually make things messier. I had one client who thought he was being clever by using only his “clean” paycheck deposits, but the lender still wanted a paper trail for every penny in the account.
It’s definitely overkill at times, but from their perspective, they’re just trying to avoid any hint of money laundering or undisclosed debt. Annoying? For sure. Necessary? Maybe... but I’d say err on the side of transparency, even if it means tracking down grandma for a letter about your birthday card cash.
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Honestly, the hoops underwriters make people jump through can feel a bit much. I’ve seen folks get tripped up by something as innocent as a Venmo from a friend for concert tickets. It’s wild how granular they get—sometimes it feels like you need to keep a diary for every dollar that lands in your account.
I get why people want to keep their side gig cash separate, but you’re right, it can backfire. When you finally need to show those funds, suddenly there’s this “mystery money” the lender wants to dissect. I’ve had clients who thought they were being smart by only using their W-2 income for deposits, but then the underwriter wanted to know why there was a random $700 deposit from three months ago. Cue the scramble for old invoices and bank screenshots.
Is it overkill? Probably. But if you want the process to go smoothly, it’s way easier to just document everything up front—even if it means awkwardly texting your aunt for a note about that birthday check. Better safe than sorry, right?
