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RE: “High DTI means automatic denial”… right?

High DTI Isn’t Always a Dealbreaker… But It’s Rare I’ve seen lenders bend a little, but it’s not the norm. Usually, if your DTI is over their comfort...

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RE: “High DTI means automatic denial”… right?

Yeah, I hear you, but honestly, sometimes people get too hung up on the DTI number itself. I’ve seen buyers get creative—paying off a car loan or knoc...

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RE: When a fixed rate just won’t cut it: a mortgage adventure

Honestly, I’ve never had a lender break down the numbers in a way that actually made sense. They just toss out a figure and expect you to accept it, l...

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RE: When a fixed rate just won’t cut it: a mortgage adventure

I get where you’re coming from—fixed rate definitely has its perks, especially if you’re juggling a ton of other stuff. But I’ve seen folks get stuck ...

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RE: Why Is Getting a Mortgage So Hard When You're Self-Employed?

Man, I hear you on the account separation thing. When I started out, I thought having a business account and a personal account would make things crys...

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RE: Top 10 Mortgage Questions Answered: Everything You Need to Know

I’ve actually had a “courier fee” disappear completely after I pushed back, so yeah, sometimes they just drop it if you call them out. But you’re righ...

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RE: 🚨 LIMITED-TIME HOME DEAL 🚨

LIMITED-TIME HOME DEAL 🚨 Totally get the frustration with those random fees. Honestly, there’s no reason for a “processing” charge that nob...

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RE: Wondering if I can still qualify for a HARP refi these days

Yeah, FMERR's definitely tightened up lately. Non-QM lenders can be a lifesaver if you're really stuck, but man, those rates can sting. Had a client l...

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RE: Thinking about refinancing my VA mortgage, curious what others are doing

Yeah, agreed. I've done a few IRRRLs myself and found the same thing—closing costs were pretty reasonable compared to standard refis. One thing I'd ad...

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RE: PRE-APPROVED OR WINGING IT: WHAT IF YOU FOUND YOUR DREAM HOME FIRST?

Yeah, that's pretty typical. Appraisers usually don't like admitting they're off, even a little bit. Had a similar thing happen on a renovation projec...

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RE: Mortgage rules just got tighter—didn't see that coming

Yeah, lenders have definitely gotten pickier lately. I've been in property development for years, and honestly, the hoops they're making us jump throu...

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RE: Feeling Stuck Paying Only Interest and Getting Nowhere

Yeah, learned that one the hard way myself. A few years back, I jumped into refinancing thinking I'd finally get ahead—lower monthly payments sounded ...

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RE: Career Crossroads: Stick With Stable Gig or Jump Into Risky Dream Job?

I jumped ship from a cushy corporate gig to join a friend's startup a few years back. Not gonna lie, first year was rough—lots of ramen dinners, lol—b...

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RE: What if you found the perfect rental but financing got tricky?

Honestly, banks can be pretty rigid about projected rental income—sometimes they'll count a portion, but usually not enough to swing the deal if you'r...

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RE: HARD CASH VS. BANK LOANS - WHICH ONE MAKES MORE SENSE?

Totally get that feeling, banks can be a pain... but careful with private lenders. Had a buddy underestimate costs—ended up scrambling big time to ref...

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