I totally get this dilemma—went through something similar when refinancing my home recently. A few things I learned along the way:
- Fulfillment often sneaks up on you AFTER the leap, not before.
- Anxiety can masquerade as intuition. Took me ages to figure that one out, haha.
- Sometimes stability feels comforting, but comfort isn't always fulfilling long-term...
Honestly, it's like buying shoes online—you never really know if they'll fit until they're at your doorstep. Good luck with whatever you decide!
Definitely relate to that shoe analogy...but I've also jumped into a few pairs that looked great online and ended up giving me blisters, haha. Sometimes the safer route isn't glamorous, but it keeps the lights on while you test the waters slowly.
I get the shoe analogy, but sometimes even the "safe" pair can pinch after a while. I recently bought my first home, thinking stability was key, but now I'm wondering if playing it too safe means missing out on something more fulfilling...
I totally get where you're coming from—stability can feel reassuring at first, especially after a big commitment like buying a home. But sometimes, the comfort zone can become restrictive over time. Have you considered exploring your dream job on a smaller scale first? Maybe freelancing or part-time gigs to test the waters without fully abandoning your current stability. Balancing both could give you clarity and reduce financial stress while you figure things out...just a thought.
I went through something similar a few years back. Bought my first house and suddenly felt locked into my job because of the mortgage. I ended up dipping my toes into freelance consulting on weekends—just small projects here and there. Honestly, it was exhausting at first, but it gave me a clearer picture of what I really wanted. Eventually, I realized I preferred stability over the stress of chasing gigs...but everyone's different. Maybe try it out on a smaller scale first and see how it feels?
