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That “take it or leave it” vibe from some local lenders is definitely a thing here. Honestly, I think you nailed it—they’re betting on folks valuing the hometown service over a few bucks. In my experience, they usually just don’t have the margin to play with rates and fees like the big banks. I always tell clients to treat every fee as negotiable, but yeah, sometimes you hit a wall. And the appraisal fee... classic. I’ve seen “courier” charges pop up too—like, who even uses couriers anymore? Keeping a spreadsheet is the only way to stay sane.
Spreadsheet warriors unite... I swear, tracking those random “processing” and “courier” fees is like playing whack-a-mole. One thing I’ve found—if your credit score’s solid, you’ve got a bit more leverage to push back on some of those junk fees. Not always, but sometimes they’ll blink first if you mention shopping around. And yeah, the appraisal fee is the hill they’ll die on. I once tried to negotiate that and got a look like I’d asked for free tacos.
One thing I’ve found—if your credit score’s solid, you’ve got a bit more leverage to push back on some of those junk fees.
I get where you’re coming from, but I haven’t always found credit score to be the magic bullet for fee negotiations. Lenders still seem pretty set in their ways, especially with the processing fees—they just call them “standard.” Sometimes what’s worked better for me is getting a couple of competing quotes in writing and letting them know I’m comparing line by line. That’s when they start getting creative with discounts or waivers. Appraisal fee though...yeah, that’s non-negotiable territory.
Definitely agree that the “standard” fees are their bread and butter. Credit score helps, sure, but it’s not a golden ticket. I’ve refinanced a few places in DFW and honestly, the only time I saw real movement on those pesky fees was when I sent over another lender’s full estimate—suddenly, the “non-negotiable” doc prep fee got slashed in half. Funny how that works.
Appraisal fee though, yeah, that one’s like gravity...you’re not escaping it no matter how charming you are or what your FICO says. I’ve even tried the “I’m a repeat customer” angle and got nowhere fast.
If anything, the more detail you have on each quote, the better your odds of trimming some fat off the closing costs. It’s tedious but worth it if you’re looking to squeeze every dollar. Just wish they’d be more upfront instead of acting like you’re asking for state secrets.
You nailed it with the “state secrets” line—sometimes it really does feel like you need a decoder ring just to figure out what’s negotiable. I’ve seen plenty of lenders act like their hands are tied, but the second you show them a competitor’s estimate, suddenly there’s wiggle room. It’s wild how fast those “fixed” fees can shrink when they realize you’re not just going to roll over.
Appraisal fees, though...yeah, those are pretty much set in stone. Even if you know the appraiser personally, there’s not much room to maneuver. That said, I’ve had a few clients get lucky with appraisal waivers lately (mostly on conventional loans with strong equity), but it’s definitely not something you can count on.
Totally agree that getting line-by-line quotes is worth the hassle. It’s a pain, but even trimming $200 here and $150 there adds up. The transparency issue drives me nuts too—if lenders were just upfront about what’s actually flexible, it’d save everyone a lot of time and headaches.
