Totally get what you mean about the “mystery lender” move—tried that once and got the same deadpan look. What actually helped me was having every doc ready to go, like you said. I swear, the faster you can send stuff, the more they take you seriously. Also, double-checking your credit report before you even start? Saved me from a weird error that would’ve tanked my rate. Not glamorous, but it worked.
Totally agree on the docs—had my W2s, pay stubs, and even a scanned copy of my ID ready before they even asked. Made things go way smoother. One thing I’d add: don’t be afraid to ask about “lender credits.” Sometimes they’ll knock a bit off if you push, but you gotta be persistent. Also, shopping rates within a short window (like 2 weeks) doesn’t ding your credit as much as people think... learned that the hard way after spreading mine out too long.
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don’t be afraid to ask about “lender credits.” Sometimes they’ll knock a bit off if you push, but you gotta be persistent.
- 100% agree on pushing for lender credits. I’ve had lenders suddenly “find” extra credits just because I mentioned a competitor’s offer.
- One thing I’d add: don’t overlook discount points. Sometimes paying a little upfront can save a ton over the loan term, especially if you know you’ll hold the property.
- Rate shopping—yeah, timing matters. Last year I did all my pulls in 10 days and only saw one small hit on my score. Before that, spread it out and got dinged more than expected.
- Not everyone realizes you can negotiate origination fees too... Had one broker drop theirs by $600 after I called them out.
It’s wild how much is negotiable if you just ask.
Man, lenders are like magicians with those “hidden” credits. Last refi I did, I swear the guy pulled a $1,200 credit out of thin air after I casually mentioned another bank’s rate. I’ve also had some luck with origination fees—one place tried to charge me $900, but after a little back and forth (and a dramatic sigh), they dropped it by half. It’s wild how much wiggle room there is if you just act like you know the game. Funny thing is, the first time I bought, I didn’t negotiate a thing... rookie mistake.
Yeah, there’s definitely more room to negotiate than most folks realize. I’ve seen lenders drop points or toss in credits just because they know you’re shopping around. It’s almost like they expect you to push back a bit. First time I refinanced, I didn’t question anything either—learned quick that a little confidence (and some comparison quotes) can save you thousands. Funny how the “rules” seem to change once you know what to ask for.
