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Borrowed from a friend instead of the bank and it worked out great

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mollydiver411
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That's a solid approach, but do you think mentioning interest might make things awkward between friends? I've usually skipped that part—just kept it simple with amount, dates, and signatures. Worked fine so far...

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patclimber
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Yeah, skipping interest can definitely simplify things, especially if you're close friends. But honestly, adding a small interest rate isn't always awkward—sometimes it actually helps keep things fair and clear. A friend loaned me part of my down payment when I bought my first place, and we agreed on a tiny bit of interest (way less than the bank would've charged). At first, I thought it'd be weird, but it ended up making me feel better about borrowing. It showed I respected their help enough not to take advantage.

But yeah, it's totally situational. If you've got a solid friendship and trust each other completely, maybe no need. Just make sure you're both comfortable with whatever you decide... money can get weird fast if expectations aren't clear.

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"money can get weird fast if expectations aren't clear."

This is so true. When I refinanced my place, I briefly considered borrowing from a friend to cover some closing costs. We talked it over casually, and even though we're super close, we both felt a bit uneasy about mixing friendship and finances. Ended up going with the bank instead—higher interest, sure, but it kept things straightforward and stress-free for us.

But hearing your experience makes me think maybe we were overly cautious. It's reassuring to know that setting clear terms upfront can actually strengthen trust rather than strain it. Glad it worked out smoothly for you! Seems like the key really is being open and honest about expectations from the start...

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Totally get the hesitation—money and friends can be a tricky combo. But honestly, if you set clear boundaries and treat it like a real loan (paperwork and all), it can work out fine. I borrowed from a buddy once to fix my credit situation, and we joked about him sending "friendly reminders" every month. Kept things chill but structured, you know? Maybe the key is keeping the humor alive while still being responsible...

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patriciaf52
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I see your point about keeping it structured and humorous, but isn't there still a risk that even clear boundaries and paperwork won't prevent awkwardness later? I mean, what happens if you miss a payment or two? Do you really want your friend having to chase you down, even jokingly? I've seen friendships go south over smaller things than money, honestly. Maybe it's just me being cautious, but wouldn't it make more sense to explore other low-interest options first? Credit unions or community banks can sometimes offer surprisingly good rates without the personal baggage. Not saying borrowing from a friend can't work—sounds like it did for you—but I'd be hesitant to recommend it broadly without considering the potential downsides.

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