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Borrowed from a friend instead of the bank and it worked out great

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spirituality_nick
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Totally get where you're coming from, and usually I'd agree. But honestly, borrowing from a friend worked for me because we were super clear upfront:

- Set clear expectations (amount, repayment timeline)
- Kept it small enough that neither of us would lose sleep over it
- Regular check-ins to keep things transparent

Still, I wouldn't do it with just anyone... gotta know your friendship can handle some awkwardness if things get tight. Saving interest is nice, but peace of mind is priceless, right?

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"Still, I wouldn't do it with just anyone... gotta know your friendship can handle some awkwardness if things get tight."

Haha, ain't that the truth. Had a similar situation a while back—borrowed from a buddy for a renovation project. We joked that if things went south, he'd end up owning half my kitchen cabinets. Thankfully, we kept it small and clear like you did, and we're still laughing about it now. Definitely agree it's all about knowing your friendship's limits...and maybe having friends who don't mind owning random household fixtures.

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Took a similar route once and it worked out okay, but honestly, I'd think twice before doing it again. Borrowed from a close friend for a small investment property, and even though we kept things straightforward, there were definitely some tense moments when payments got delayed. We got through it fine, friendship intact...but man, mixing money and friendships can be tricky territory. Glad it worked out well for you though—sounds like you handled it smartly.

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Glad it turned out well for you. I've seen friendships strained over similar arrangements, even when everyone had good intentions. Sounds like you navigated it carefully though...that's commendable. Just keep an eye out—things can shift unexpectedly.

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geek968
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"Just keep an eye out—things can shift unexpectedly."

Couldn't agree more. Even the most carefully planned arrangements can hit unexpected bumps. A few years back, I partnered with a close friend on a small property project. We laid out every detail meticulously, yet still found ourselves navigating some awkward conversations when market conditions shifted slightly. Thankfully, we managed to keep our friendship intact—but it taught me to stay alert and flexible. Sounds like you're already mindful of that though, so you're ahead of the game!

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