Honestly, I thought I was prepared for the paperwork, but it’s like every time I turned around, there was another thing to explain. Had a random $50 PayPal from my sister for splitting a birthday gift and suddenly the underwriter wanted a whole backstory. It’s wild how they want to track every little thing, even if it’s just someone paying you back for pizza. Sometimes I feel like they care more about these tiny transactions than whether you can actually afford the house.
The credit score thing threw me too. Mine was decent, but not amazing, and I figured as long as I had a good down payment and steady job, that would count for more. Turns out, not so much. The difference in interest rates just from being a few points higher or lower is kind of nuts. It almost feels like you’re being judged by this one number, even if you’ve got your finances together otherwise.
I get that they need to be careful, but sometimes it feels like they’re just making it harder for regular people who aren’t perfect on paper. The whole process has been way more stressful than I expected—like, I knew it’d be a lot, but not THIS much. Still crossing my fingers everything goes through... just hoping there aren’t any more “mystery” deposits to explain before closing.
Anyway, hang in there too. It helps knowing other people are dealing with the same nonsense and it’s not just me overthinking every Venmo notification.
Still crossing my fingers everything goes through...
It’s wild how much scrutiny they put on those small transactions. I had to explain a $30 Venmo from my roommate for utilities—felt ridiculous. The credit score thing really does sting, too. Even a 10-point difference can bump your rate up noticeably. It’s frustrating when you’ve done everything else right but still get dinged for not being “perfect” on paper. I get the risk management side, but sometimes it feels like common sense gets lost in the process.
